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LOS ANGELES --- In traditional Taiwan society, there was no
war between men and women because women tended to be
submissive, gentle and willing to take a secondary role, well-known
Taiwan-based radio host Ching Meng-chung recently told the glossy
monthly Taipei Review. Nowadays, he added, due
to their considerable economic independence, modern women -- especially
feminists -- demand a bigger say in things. That causes tension
and even conflict between men and women.
And thats
a good thing!
Take the tension,
and potential political conflict, between Makiko Tanaka -- who is,
admittedly, to the art of traditional, soft-spoken diplomacy approximately
what rugby is to badminton -- and the cabal of old-school Confucian
chauvinists in Tokyo who speak softly but hide a big bank account.
Tanaka is no diplomat, they claimed when they got her
fired from her foreign minister post by Prime Minister Junichiro
Koizumi. A bachelor, Koizumi may know his way around a kitchen,
but he cant stand the heat anywhere else, it would seem.
Shes no
diplomat? Take a look around. Isnt it impressive how well
the traditional, soft-spoken masters of diplomacy have done? Look
at all that peace in the Middle East, in Chechnya, in Afghanistan...
What the world
needs is fewer tip-toeing diplomats and more foreign ministers like
Tanaka; people who tell it like it is, who refuse to gloss over
harsh realities. Were much better off with a Margaret Thatcher
or a Makiko Tanaka at the head table than such affable diplomats
as former British Prime Minister Alex Douglas Hume or Koizumi.
I recently wrote
about the expanding list of major female Asian leaders, a column
that triggered a lot of angry male mail. Heres one:
Asian
women rule, you write, sir? Do they really? Notwithstanding the
presence of Gloria Arroyo, Makiko Tanaka, Park Giun Hye, Keiko Obuchi,
Aung Sang Su Kyi or even Megawati Sukarnoputri, each of these women
has had to rise to power (or position of eminence) on the coattail
of their fathers namesake.
An offspring
getting ahead in politics on the basis of patrimony? Oh, my! How
utterly unprecedented! It never happens in the world of male politics,
right? We all know George W. Bush is president because he had the
highest IQ, the most experience and the best command of language
(not to mention geography), right? We all know John F. Kennedys
wealthy, connected father, Joseph Kennedy, had utterly nothing to
do with his success, right? In fact, in the last session of the
U.S. Congress, there were four senators and 10 House members holding
the same seats once held by their fathers. And in Asia, forget about
it -- the list of male dynasties would be even longer than a Fidel
Castro speech.
To be sure,
anyone who would suggest that Asia is in the midst of an overnight
transformation to gender-neutral culture is clearly smoking some
strong stuff.
The political
eminence of some women in Asia, writes the Indian Dipankar
Gupta, is not so much because of a progressive attitude toward
them as it is on account of a rather traditional view of what is
deemed to be the role of a woman. Rather than independent
political actors, he suggests, the political woman is a totem, reminding
the worshipful tribe of the maximum leader (male) long since departed
to that great patriarchal throne in the sky.
No one wants
to play cricket against an Indian on his own cricket grounds. And
perhaps we Americans are over-awed (or intimidated?) by our own
increasingly powerful women. As one reader named Stan e-mailed last
week about Tanaka, Tom, as to Japan, you are clearly smoking
some strong stuff.
To him, I say,
light something up while I tell you a story. If Lee Kuan Yew, the
founding prime minister of Singapore, is not one of the shrewdest,
toughest, smartest political minds of his generation, please tell
me who is. He was once questioned about his monumental decision
decades ago to provide Singapores women with educational and
employment opportunities that are comparable, arguably, to those
available to men.
How liberated,
I said, admiringly. No, he replied, not liberated, just practical:
If you give your women the same chance at success, he pointed out,
youll double your work force -- a real issue in a nation of
less than 4 million. But these women are really no more than the
beneficiaries of patrimony, right?
Then this tough,
wise man looked at me with the politest of smiles: Im
going to ask that you make an appointment to meet our ambassador
in Washington, which of course is our single most important foreign
diplomatic post.
"Whats
the name? I asked.
Chan Heng
Chee, he said.
Hey, Stan, the
next time youre in Washington, ask around as to who is probably
the most widely respected foreign diplomat in the U.S. capital.
Dont be surprised if the consensus choice is Chan Heng Chee.
Oh, yes, thats
Madame Chan, thank you -- Cornell University and the University
of Singapore.
Once, the Greek
philosopher Plato was asked whether a woman could be a philosopher-king
-- that is to say, why not a philosopher-queen? He answered: Whats
wanted in that job is wisdom, judgment, virtue and intellect. What,
he added, does a persons anatomy have to do with any of this?
Stan, you can
also ask Lee Kuan Yew, while youre at it. Maybe hes
no Plato, but hes way too smart to be a sexist.
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